We never wanted to talk about this, but the truth must be told no matter whose ox is gored.
Campus marriage is bad, hazardous, perilous, risky, high-risk, unsafe, unpredictable, precarious, and insecure.
What is Campus Marriage?
Campus marriage is an act of living together under same roof by two
opposite $E% students. They eat together, read together and even have
sexual relationship without legally being married.
This form of unrecognised marriage has eroded morality among Nigerian
students in tertiary institutions. Sadly, this type of relationship
does not lead to a recognised or formal marriage between the partners as
it ends at the school.
Majority of the students have unrealistic reasons for engaging in
such relationship. Some say it’s as a result of lack of sufficient
accommodation, other say they choose to be close to each other for
security reasons.
Some even say it’s due to emotional feelings. In essence, it is born
out of the want for pleasure and excitement that could be occasioned by
living together.
However, the resultant effects and benefits of such a relationship
have shown that most of the students who engage in it are withdrawn from
their study. Some carry over their courses, while many other female
students have unwanted pregnancy. Such students are also observed to
lack discipline, self esteem and receive low recognition from among
their peers.
Regrettably, some of the girls who get pregnant and try to terminate the pregnancy die in the process.
Of course, it is needless saying that abortion is considered immoral
by the two prominent religions in Nigeria, Islam and Christianity.
Students of higher institutions are, therefore, admonished not to
engage in cohabiting, it does not pay and it does not necessarily lead
to a lasting relationship or end in proper marriage.
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