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Wednesday, May 8, 2013

How to Find Love at 50

Finding love at 50 requires that you put yourself out there into the mix of people that you are trying to meet.

By first placing yourself in the realm of like minded people you will be able to find a person with whom to share your love with and in turn feel theirs for you.

Make it a priority to go out at the least once a day. The location does not have to cost you any money. Go to the library, walk your dog at the local park, sit in when you see a baseball game going on.

Get dressed in appropriate apparel for the occasion. Make certain to always look your best. If you are at the laundromat and all that is clean are your sweat suits, wear your very nicest sweat pants and top. Look clean and as attractive and appropriate for the locale.

Make yourself available to communication with people you have not yet met. If you are heading to the gym for a workout for instance, do not cover your ears with bulky headphones but instead, opt for ear buds so you can easily remove them to start a conversation with that good looking person that keeps catching your eye. When in line at the supermarket/post office/dry cleaner or any place you see another that you can envision connecting with, make a witty comment about the stamps, dry cleaning machine, anything that makes the connection. If you can tackle these tasks you will make the steps to finding a person to love at 50 simpler.

Be willing to date and fall in love with different ages. If he or she is 30 or 60 do not be so quick to discount their potential to offer you the kind of love you require. There are people that can see the benefit in differences and actually seek out someone who meshes with their own mind frame.

Tips
Remember that there is no "right" age to fall in love. It can happen any time at any age.
There are single's nights around most towns that specify certain age groups, as well as hobbies that someone of 50 would like as opposed to someone younger/older. Remembering what was popular in your growing up years will steer you towards functions surrounding those things. If the local TV museum is having a memoir of a beloved show of your time, go looking great at 50, and you can meet someone to love that also has similar tastes as you.

Warnings

Always remember that you are looking for someone to love at 50 and that wants that in return. If a person you want to fall in love with wants instead to just go out to expensive dinners and be out of the house then trust your instincts and be willing to move on and allow your correct person to enter your life so that you will be able to fall in love. Trust yourself and your instincts will lead you well.

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